your words are bullet, your mouth is a gun.


Your Words Are Bullets, Your Mouth Is A Gun.


Here is a story about a girl who is absolutely a victim become the criminal when she is trying to defend herself to the real doer. This happens in a place where student usually get their additional study out of school. It experienced to a junior high school every single day she went to the course until she done something that makes the boy stop.

Now, the story begin.

     Every twice a week this girl goes to the language course at the afternoon. The class is not really full, there are some students from another junior high school in her town. The truth is most of girls can’t express their feeling very well so when the incident happen the girl can’t defend herself neither the rest of students in the class including her teacher, they don’t do anything. Then it continues to the next meeting in the course, next meeting and next meeting and so on. What’s going on in class is the boy keeps make fun of her, the words is quite disturbing for the girl and humiliating her because it is something that the girl doesn’t like. At first, the girl just take it easy but the boy keeps mocking her, maybe because the girl doesn’t do anything. All she can do is give him a peevish face. Though the girl’s appearence is kinda boyish but still, her heart and behavior is still girly. 

     Weeks passes by, but the girl still rather be shut. Not doing anything. So does the boy, he keeps doing this mocking thing. The girl feels lonely because no one ever help her or make an effort to make the boy stop moreover they laugh sometimes. The girl feels cornered, she doesn’t even tell her parents that she is being disturbed in the course, because she‘s just can’t say it. On the other side, the girl wants to fight back but she is afraid. In this situation, she is really depressed. She is confused, not knowing of what she should do to make it stop and back to normal. She is humiliated.

     A problem will always has its climax and its problem solving. There is one point when everything is “enough”. When the girl feels enough about the boy’s mockery, the students that is just listening to it, the teacher who thinks its fine and the other people around her who don’t even care. She feds up with the boy and the rest of people in her life. So she thinks there is no way out if she doesn’t stand up for herself.

     There is a moment in the class where the boy’s pencil is falls under the girl’s seat. The girl don’t do anything, she just give a blank face to him. When the class almost finish, the girl takes the pencil and would like to give it to the boy but before the boy can take the pencil the girl drops it and give a little fake evil smile, then the boy takes it underneath. The students quite shock of what the girl doing as well as the teacher. The teacher even say, “What happen?”. After that, the girl go home leaves everyone include her teacher behind her. She feels relieved although she knows that some of her friends might dislike of what she done to the boy. At least, the pain in her heart is decreased because she already fight back. By her action, the boy knows that she doesn’t like him, she doesn’t like about what he is doing to her.

     Indeed, the next meeting the boy stops. Both of the girl and the boy become an enemy. It happens until they go to senior high school, actually the boy is a year older than the girl so he goes to senior high earlier. Times flies, the girl continue her course when she enters senior high and meet with one of the boy’s friend. The writer name him Kevin.

     Kevin is such a nice guy. The girl and Kevin become a friend, well actually they are. One day, there is a moment when they talk about their course while they were in junior high school and suddenly kevin ask about the boy. The question is “What happened between you and him (the boy)?”. The girl just answer, “ I don’t know”. At the moment when Kevin ask that question, the girl is empty and after she answer that question she feels sad like no one ever know what it feels to be in her position. The girl thinks that the world is against her, against of whatever she done. Like she shouldn’t have done anything to the boy while the boy is make fun of her continuously. Well maybe the others enjoy the show.

End of the story.

Until now, the writer know that the pain stay, in the girl’s heart that will be a negative impact for her mental to face life.

Well, most people might be think that what happens in this story is just fine and a common thing in society but the writer sure that for some people it’s not due to some conditions :

First, we are human and human has a variety of characteristic. We can’t do the same thing to everyone, they might be can’t accept that or being disturbed by that. For instance, you talk a bad thing to your friends, the writer sure that all of your friends get a different perception of what your saying.

Secondly, what is comes from our mouth can’t be acceptable for everyone’s ear and heart. There is a 100% chances that our word can hurt the people that we talk to. Means that we have to be careful for what we are going to say.

Third, we should have known that saying unimpormant thing is useless, moreover saying something that disturbed people is really a bad thing. So why would we do that.

Last, we shouldn’t have a bad habit. By all means we should not say something terrible or something that make people uncomfortable with it continuously. Well, it might be fine and satisfied with the one who said that but not with the other person. It hurts them.

The messages is very simple, You have to be careful with what you say :) Remember. Our words might be nothing to us but it can be something to them either its good or bad, surely all of our words have the affects.


please go watch this video, it's an important things to do when there is a people who is feeling down and can prevent people to do something that is dangerous.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BByqa7bhto

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